Lee....
No.....not at all.....bluntly put,
None of us should feel offended/insulted/discouraged by anyone else's negative comments or opinions about our song writing efforts. Song writing is a very personal thing. We can't expect everyone to like a song just because we spent 6 months on a tune thinking it's a masterpiece. So.......if any of us are going to put our music out to the public or possible collaborators to hear we must have the skin of a snow tire and we should accept all comments whether positive or negative. If someone thinks my songs suck....so be it.
I know my place in the music world....my material will quite likely never appeal to the masses so I continue on as song writing/recording is just creative therapy for me. I do it because I've done it for four decades and don't expect anyone to patronize me with how great my song is in fear of hurting my feelings.
Just keep doing what you're doing without big expectations. If my peers do give my material a listen and do comment favorably....that works for me. What my non-musician/non-song writing friends/family say has little real meaning....it's what our peers say that has true merit to me and is frosting on our creative cake.
That's my take....carry on.