I believe there is an "upstairs" to this place. THAT is where things should be both helpful and on topic. Expecting things to conform in the Coffee House is like expecting guests at a picnic to only talk about one topic - not going to happen! Nor should it. I work 90+ hours a week between a start-up and the older company that still pays the bills. This place accounts for the vast majority of my socializing for the entire week (sad, isn't it?).