I use ATH-M50x for drummer to wear during recording (reduces bleed) and since I'm in the same room with the drummer I wear them too.
I use (mainly) Sonarworks profiled Sennheiser HD650s for mixing, and if I'm in the mood I'll use Slate VSX to get a flavor of different environment reactions to my mix.
I also have a pair of HD-600s (non-profiled) and Ultimate Ears (in ear) reference monitors with personal molded earpieces.
If and when I want to use actual speakers I have first generation IKM iLoud MTMs with an Adam 8" subwoofer.
I rarely have a vocalist in my home studio but I have available an AEA R84 ribbon mic, Slate VMS ML-1 and Slate preamp, Townsend Labs Sphere mic with all the UAD available mic modeling profiles and an AKG C414 form the 80s that was modded to be transformer less.