I was a good student but my daughters are in another league. Hope these grades and clubs pay off for them with some scholarships. When we go to parent teacher conferences we bring our daughters along. Quite a few teachers tell us they are to hard on themselves. We tell the teachers don't tell us tell them that, we know. Want them to get good grades but not obsess about them. They both are both competitive, I keep praying they don't burn themselves out.