Great tips... thanks everyone.
Now its to put them into action in a percentage way... as everyone hears things differently.. but we are on the right track.
I am learning to go with my gut feeling (what I like) its very easy to doubt yourself.
The band themselves have different ideas.
Drummer likes to be louder
Guitarist like to be louder.
Backing vocals want to be louder
You cant please everyone ?
That's why I love posting on here as it validates different things.
Thanks so much everyone.. Ill post the final mix soon as I take things on board.