Greg, you've received some good advice which can help you in the long run. However, without hearing a sample of your vocals, it's nearly impossible to give you precise advice. You might get better help if you posted a sample of your song or vocal for our ears to hear on our systems. I know that many singers don't like the sound of their own voice, yet others might like it anyway. I used to be that way until I discovered that it was my ears that were faulty and not my equipment or room. Eventually, I learned to overcome that disability by posting songs on the song forum, and I learned from a consensus of opinions where my weakness was and made adjustments accordingly.
I'm not saying your ears are bad; just that sometimes ears need a little training. It's like getting used to your monitors and knowing their strengths and weaknesses. Good luck!