My wife passed away

[Zargg]

Not good at all.

The boys are luckily taking it much better than me, but I'm a complete mess.

I thank you all for your kind words and appreciate them all.

[craigb]

Just stay in touch!  No one is expecting you to get over this in a few days, it takes plenty of time, but we would be very poor humans if we let you just crawl off and hide.  Stay strong! ?

[InstrEd]

Just take it day by day Ken.   Everyone handles grief differently and there is no one way to grieve.  Just stay in touch.

[Tenfoot]

Hang in there Ken. Lots of people thinking of you mate.

[rcklln]

My sincere condolences to you and your family Ken. Make sure to take care of yourself.

[Jesse Screed]

nothing else matters

nothimg

 

[InstrEd]

51 minutes ago, rcklln said:

Make sure to take care of yourself.

 

22 minutes ago, Jesse Screed said:

nothing else matters

nothimg

The simple truth in these statements. You have to make sure you make time for yourself to grieve.  I  remember the Church Parish Nurse telling me that the more you feel the pain means the more you loved that person and the longer your grieving will be.  

[Zargg]

I thank you all for your kind words ♥️

Yesterday was one of the hardest ones so far. My 1st birthday without her. Both the boys were (and still are) away.

Edited July 29, 2019 by Zargg
spelling

[Starise]

Hang in there Ken. It's tough for sure.  There really aren't words for a grief like this.  It just hurts. You will get through it. No, life won't be the same. I'm sure she would want nothing more than for you to go on and live life to the fullest. I'm sure there's a lot of life left to live. Best to you. In my thoughts and prayers. Don't hesitate to PM me if you need someone to listen. I'm no expert in this but I can  sympathize and listen.